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Who is the ultimate director of your body in any yoga, movement or fitness class?
That’s right, it’s you.
And what is your absolute #1 non-negotiable, stop the presses experience in class?
Physical Pain
Please remember that you are the only authority on what you are feeling at any given moment in your body when you are stretching or in a movement activity.
You and only you get to decide when you have reached your edge:
The body’s edge is the place just before pain, but not pain itself. Pain tells you where the limits of physical conditioning lie. Since the edge moves from day to day and from breath to breath, in order to be right there, moving with its often-subtle changes, you must remain mindful of your own body.
Everyone's ‘edge” is going to be different because we are all different people; different ages, different past traumas, injuries, surgeries, mindsets, flexibilities, joints, bone structure, fascia, sensitivities, how well you sleep, and so on.
And because of our differences, everyone will naturally look different in a stretch or yoga pose, but that doesn’t make anybody right or wrong, better or worse. We are all on different places on our paths.
Yes, we wish to challenge ourselves, that’s how we grow. But physical pain need not be part of that growth.
So the 2nd most important bit of advise I can share with you now is this:
Stay connected to and become a keen observer of your own body, the flow of your breath moment to moment, and allow what others are doing in the space to fade to the outer neutral rings of your consciousness.
"Everything you want to be, you already are. You’re simply on the path to discovering it." Alicia Keys
I will be cheering for and supporting you 100% Jody
Query:
If one shoulder is painful on a certain day, do you just let it be? Then approach or try again another day? I’ve had the “gym” approach for so many years. Everything “should” be bilateral, Even with no weight.
Response:
My take on this is that if there is pain in the body for whatever reason and is exacerbated when doing certain movements, stretches, or exercise, (unless it's being done with a physical therapist or other highly trained medical person), then the movement should be modified through alternative options or skipped on that side until it is better, resolves, or your Dr./Therapist gives you the green light to continue.
Suppose there is an ongoing injurious process that is occurring or has taken place previously. In that case, the last thing a person should do is continue to stretch or exercise that part, possibly making it worse.
If it is arthritis, then using variations are highly suggested.
An experienced teacher can help you with this.
What does an "edge" even mean?
First - do no harm
In a yoga class, you may hear (or use) the term, "go to your edge". But what does this really mean?
Your edge signifies the point in a pose or shape where you experience a moderate stretch or challenge, just before it turns into discomfort or pain. It's the balance between pushing your limits while maintaining awareness and control; essentially, it’s the sweet spot where you neither overexert yourself nor shy away from challenge. You can pinpoint your edge(s) by paying close attention to your body’s sensations, recognizing the early signs of strain, and adjusting your pose with mindful breathing.
Key points to identify when you are at your edge during asana practice
Physical sensations
Experiencing a moderate or strong stretch, slight muscle trembling, or resistance in the pose or practice.
Mental awareness
Your mind/body starts to tense and you feel discomfort that is sharp or does not ease - this is a signal to back off, especially when a joint is involved. Alternatively, when you're tempted to push further, or when you become overly fixated on achieving a specific depth or reach.
Breathing
If your breath becomes shallow or strained or if you are holding your breath, it may be a sign that you've gone beyond your edge.
Practice mindfulness and move slowly into poses/stretches
Stay present in your body and observe how sensations evolve throughout the pose with conscious breathing.
Adjust
If necessary, slightly change the pose to find a more comfortable position/challenge.
Avoid comparisons. Each person's edge is unique, so focus on your body’s signals rather than comparing yourself to others.
Important considerations
In yoga, the aim is not to push to your absolute limit but to explore your edges with awareness and respect for your body.
Ahimsa - nonviolence, is one of yoga’s ethical principles and always includes yourself.
Build a supportive community
Engage with fellow practitioners who share similar goals, as they can provide encouragement and insights.
What are the Benefits of Finding or Going to Your Edge:
Increased body awareness
You learn to identify your edge, you become more attuned to your body’s needs and limits.
Enhanced flexibility
Gradually working within your edge can lead to improved flexibility and strength over time.
Reduction of injuries
By respecting your edge, you minimize the risk of injury, allowing for sustainable practice.
Mental resilience
Facing challenges within your comfort zone can also build mental strength and focus.
Yoga is a personal journey, and exploring your edge (which can shift and change) is a vital part of that process. Embrace each practice as an opportunity to learn more about yourself, and remember that progress is not solely defined by physical achievement. Celebrate all victories along the way, big or small and honor your unique body and path.
Jody Ford
Crones Yoga
We can directly affect our nervous system positively with movement, breath and intentional relaxation, which will help us shift to a calmer and healthier state.
The Top of the Ladder
What would it feel like to be safe and warm? Arms strong but gentle. Snuggled close, joined by tears and laughter. Free to share, to stay, to leave . . . Safety and connection are guided by the evolutionarily newest part of the autonomic nervous system. Our social engagement system is active in the ventral vagal pathway of the parasympathetic branch. In this state, our heart rate is regulated, our breath is full, we take in the faces of friends, and we can tune in to conversations and tune out distracting noises. We see the “big picture” and connect to the world and the people in it. I might describe myself as happy, active, interested and the world as safe, fun, and peaceful. From this ventral vagal place at the top of the autonomic ladder, I am connected to my experiences and can reach out to others. Some of the daily living experiences of this state include being organized, following through with plans, taking care of myself, taking time to play, doing things with others, feeling productive at work, and having a general feeling of regulation and a sense of management. Health benefits include a healthy heart, regulated blood pressure, a healthy immune system decreasing my vulnerability to illness, good digestion, quality sleep, and an overall sense of well-being.
Moving Down the Ladder
Fear is whispering to me and I feel the power of its message. Move, take action, escape. No one can be trusted. No place is safe . . . The sympathetic branch of the autonomic nervous system activates when we feel a stirring of unease—when something triggers a neuroception of danger. We go into action. Fight or flight happens here. In this state, our heart rate speeds up, our breath is short and shallow, we scan our environment looking for danger—we are “on the move.” I might describe myself as anxious or angry and feel the rush of adrenaline that makes it hard for me to be still. I am listening for sounds of danger and don’t hear the sounds of friendly voices. The world may feel dangerous, chaotic, and unfriendly. From this place of sympathetic mobilization—a step down the autonomic ladder and backward on the evolutionary timeline I may believe, “The world is a dangerous place and I need to protect myself from harm.” Some of the daily living problems can be anxiety, panic attacks, anger, inability to focus or follow through, and distress in relationships. Health consequences can include heart disease; high blood pressure; high cholesterol; sleep problems; weight gain; memory impairment; headache; chronic neck, shoulder, and back tension; stomach problems; and increased vulnerability to illness.
The Bottom of the Ladder
I’m far away in a dark and forbidding place. I make no sound. I am small and silent and barely breathing. Alone where no one will ever find me . . . Our oldest pathway of response, the dorsal vagal pathway of the parasympathetic branch, is the path of last resort. When all else fails, when we are trapped and action taking doesn’t work, the “primitive vagus” takes us into shutdown, collapse, and dissociation. Here at the very bottom of the autonomic ladder, I am alone with my despair and escape into not knowing, not feeling, almost a sense of not being. I might describe myself as hopeless, abandoned, foggy, too tired to think or act and the world as empty, dead, and dark. From this earliest place on the evolutionary timeline, where my mind and body have moved into conservation mode, I may believe, “I am lost and no one will ever find me.” Some of the daily living problems can be dissociation, problems with memory, depression, isolation, and no energy to do the tasks of daily living. Health consequences of this state can include chronic fatigue, fibromyalgia, stomach problems, low blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, and weight gain.
©2018 Deb Dana, from The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy: Engaging the Rhythm of Regulation.
Re-thinking Yoga Alignment: Let's Embrace Individuality!
Why do we take a Warrior II pose? To stretch our muscles? To strengthen our hips and thighs? To improve our posture? To zen out? As yoga instructors, we need to pause and ponder these questions to become better at guiding our students. Instead of obsessing over perfect postures, we should pay more attention to how they impact each student.
The idea of alignment in yoga is often related to safety. However, the one-size-fits-all approach is not always the best fit! Alignment should be tailored to each person's unique needs. Trying to impose strict alignment could even lead to more injuries than if we allow our students to listen to their bodies.
When it comes to cueing yoga poses, we need to consider both body structure and soft tissue restrictions. Just because a pose looks right, doesn't mean it's right for everyone. Therefore, we need to let the purpose of the pose guide our practice.
Discomfort or Pain?
Have you ever heard the expression “The poses you avoid (or dislike) are the ones you need to do most.”? It's a well-worn saying often repeated by teachers and in yoga circles, intended to encourage students to push their boundaries and unlock deeper layers of physical strength and mental willpower. Yet, is this perspective truly beneficial, or could it be doing more harm than good?
Examining the Impact of Avoiding Certain Poses
When you come across a yoga pose that you instinctively avoid, it's natural to question your motivations. Is it a sign of laziness, or perhaps an indication that you're not a 'good enough' yoga practitioner? According to Alexandria Crow, this sentiment might actually create a negative relationship with yoga. In her words, “I’d argue that this expression perpetuates a negative relationship with yoga and could even be considered a mild form of gaslighting.”
In my personal experience as a yoga student and teacher, I've observed that most students are genuinely dedicated to their practice. They strive to do their best in each session, sometimes pushing themselves to their limits and beyond. Interestingly, when students choose to avoid certain poses, there's usually a valid reason behind it.
A Closer Look at Why Students Avoid Certain Asana
So, what are some of the reasons why yoga students might avoid or dislike certain asana or stretches? There are numerous potential explanations. For instance, they might be asked to enter ranges of motion that are beyond their body's functional range. Or, they might have a recent or old injury that gets aggravated by certain postures. For others, it could be an adverse childhood experience related to certain shapes or positions, a muscular weakness, or a sensation that simply doesn't feel right for their nervous system or personal comfort.
Remember, you don’t owe anyone an explanation of why you choose not to practice a pose. And just because a pose is difficult or uncomfortable doesn't signify that its practice will be beneficial for you.
Recognizing the Difference Between Discomfort and Pain
Of course, pushing through some forms of discomfort (but not pain) can indeed be beneficial. It's part of the growth process, helping us to stretch our boundaries and discover new capabilities. However, the phrase about practicing the poses you avoid typically doesn’t refer to minor discomfort. It's alluding to physical or emotional pain, which is a completely different story. Therefore, a crucial aspect of a strong yoga practice and setting personal boundaries is learning to recognize and honor your body’s abilities and your own needs moment by moment.
So, the next time you find yourself avoiding a certain yoga pose, consider the reasons behind your decision. If it's due to mild discomfort and you feel like pushing your boundaries, go ahead. But if it's causing you physical or emotional pain, it's perfectly fine to step back and respect your body's boundaries. After all, yoga is about harmony and balance, not about pushing yourself to the point of pain.
You might be thinking to yourself that without alignment, people are going to become injured.
I will personally respond to that thought: My body has been injured over the years of practice trying to force it into perfect alignment in classes I have attended.
My sacrum and low back in Warrior I, Triangle pose, and deep twists.
An injured knee while trying to bring my lower leg in line with the front edge of the mat practicing Pigeon pose.
Injuries do happen in yoga classes. I would ask you to (re)consider what causes most of them.
Does this photo set off your teacher alignment alarms?
When noticing what we believe is a misalignment in a practitioner's form, take a pause and examine the alignment of your body as you do your everyday activities.
Getting in and out of the car carrying groceries, raking, washing the dishes, vacuuming, making the bed, sitting at a desk, writing or typing, walking up and down the stairs, even exercising. When seated at a desk are your ankles always stacked under your knees or do you tuck them under and cross your ankles? How about when you garden or play with your children on the floor - are your wrists, elbows, and shoulders always stacked? When we are doing natural movement our bodies seem to cope just fine.
These normal, natural movements are done on repeat, literally thousands of times, and if you use the alignment criteria you may have adopted from teacher training to measure them, much of how you use your body daily could be considered “misaligned” and potentially injurious.
But is it injurious? Sure, if it hurts. What if it doesn't hurt and feels great?
And, if a movement did hurt, wouldn't you stop doing it that way?
If a pose, shape, or movement is functional for the practitioner even if it doesn't look like what you've been taught or believe is correct alignment, what then is being considered: the aesthetic or the function?
When students choose a shape that feels fine and safe for them but doesn't look quite right to us, does it make them wrong? No it doesn't, and here is where they get to practice agency over their own bodies which they have lived in all of their lives.
There is nothing inherently wrong with alignment, and some poses really demand it to stay physically balanced, but we need to take a different more open-minded look and approach at these cues we repeatedly hear or say that are directed at all students in the classroom when their functional ability may not allow them to achieve what we are asking of them.
What can we do If we find ourselves experiencing mental turbulence about this?
We could say to ourselves, "Yoga is an internal process. I have provided a safe and accepting class environment, given the instruction to the best of my ability, my student is not reporting any pain and seems comfortable and steady in their body, so I accept that this shape works functionally better for them."
Wouldn't that eliminate mental friction and allow Grace in the moment?
And isn't this exactly what the ultimate purpose of Yoga is?
Embracing Inclusivity and Accessibility in Yoga Practice
Yoga, a practice that has been with us for thousands of years, is known for its diverse asanas and stretches that offer numerous benefits to practitioners. The beauty of yoga lies not just in its physical benefits, but also in its ability to unify body and mind, to soothe the nervous system, and to enhance awareness and self-confidence. However, it is not uncommon to find yoga practices that require practitioners to perform complex postures, often involving getting down to and up from the floor. This can pose a challenge to differently-abled individuals or those who are not so comfortable with or unable to do so. This is where the concept of yoga variations and support comes in. These tools are designed to create an environment of equity, inclusion, and accessibility in yoga classes. They offer a reasonable personal challenge to practitioners without making them feel uncomfortable or left out. Let's delve into this concept and understand why it's crucial in today's yoga practice.
Understanding Yoga Variations and Supports
Yoga supports involve the use of props such as the wall, chair, blocks, bolster, blankets, and/or straps. They serve multiple purposes, including breaking down the components of a posture or stretch, deepening a practitioner's experience and understanding of an asana, and creating a more inclusive and accessible yoga practice. It's essential to remember that using a variation or adaptation doesn't mean it has less value, whether physical or energetic. In most cases, a variation can allow practitioners to understand the actions of an asana in their body more deeply while feeling more comfortable during practice. This comfort level fosters learning and growth, an essential aspect of yoga practice.
Dispelling the Misconception About Yoga Supports
Unfortunately, yoga supports are often misinterpreted as a hindrance or barrier to a practitioner's ability to become stronger or more proficient in their practice. This perception couldn't be further from the truth. Yoga supports, when used correctly, can enhance a practitioner's ability to delve deeper into their practice and achieve a better understanding of asanas.
The Flexibility of Yoga Variations Embracing Inclusivity and Accessibility in Yoga Practice
In your current yoga classes, you may ask your students to hold postures, flow gently in and out of a posture several times, or repeat postures during the course. How you present the asana variations in your classes is entirely up to you. The idea is to make your classes more accessible and enjoyable to all students, irrespective of their physical abilities.
Promoting a Personal Relationship with the Body
By promoting an individual's personal relationship with their body, asana variations and yoga supports can help students enjoy a shared and inclusive experience of focus, awareness, relaxation, accomplishment, and fun. This, in turn, gives all practitioners the ability to explore the purpose and benefits of yoga practice, such as reducing pain, improving mobility, connecting with others in their yoga community, and much more.
Creating an Inclusive Yoga Community
Practitioners who are differently-abled, whether beginners or experienced, are greatly appreciative of the opportunity to enjoy a yoga class offering options that fit their bodies, where they feel welcomed and can experience dignity. By using yoga variations and supports, we can make our yoga classes more inclusive and accessible, ensuring everyone has the chance to enjoy the wonderful benefits of yoga.
To sum it up, yoga is for everyone, and it's our responsibility as yoga teachers to ensure our classes are accessible to all. So, let's embrace yoga variations and supports, and make our classes a safe and welcoming space for every individual, regardless of their physical abilities